YOUR DECEPTIVE REFLECTION:

Well this article was written by me almost a year ago. It might need some re-writing but I am simply not in a mood to do so......There might be ppl who wont agree to what the article is about but just a simplification. The article does not talk about isolation and desertion. It talks about doing what you have to do at the end of the day cause what matters is your own self and not what others want you to do. Needless to say, it does not mean harming the sentiments of others or hurting others. We live in a society and certain norms need to be followed and certain type of behaviour is expected out of anyone. Looking at the present scenario, i think if everyone would have been behaving the way they should, THE WORLD WUD BE OBVIOUSLY A BETTER PLACE TO LIVE IN. Be it Mr. Thackarey or the closest person in my life, a certain behaviour is expected and if it does not happen, it hurts someway or the other....Anywanys this is quite controversial and why deviate from the topic......Does the title click to you?? Before you doubt my sanity, mull over these questions.Who is your role-model in life?YOU YOURSELF or someone else???When was the last time you did something you wanted to and not because your friends were doing it?WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU WERE YOURSELF?Okay….guys….i have not gone nuts..waht am I trying to tell you here is that the hard core reality of our lives is taht we end up doing certain things not cause we felt we shud be doin it but because others did it or others wanted to do it...”Be what YOU ARE and not WHAT OTHERS WANT YOU TO BECOME”.Any fashion label slaves?????I m sure ther r Millions, not denying the fact I m one of them…..Someone sets a trend and WE follow it. Why not create our own?Youth ICON…….. Indian IDOL…….oh gosh! What not we talk about!Youngsters today tell this to everyone around “I AM A FREE BIRD”. This is how they define freedom possibly?Hanging out late with friends(coz the friends wanted to not THEM) ,To take THEIR own decisions all by themselves ( which are not only barely influenced by others but made by their friends)blah blah…..We wear stilettos coz they are in fashion… We join mba cause millions do…..why??Its simply because we allow others to RULE our lives. We crystallize ourselves in fetters which rein in hands of others. Our PERCEPTIONS “match” in COMPROMISE. We spend time with friends(wow….cant live without them..even if it meant going to a place where we didnt want to go), colleagues(wow....i get to know all gossips in the world like whose sleepin wit whom...though no one knows whether they are true or not) and relatives (my promotions will burn them up….i am loving it…).How often do we spend time with OURSELVES?? No time…..certainly not…its coz we don’t want to. We evaluate our lives the way others do for us. why want to be someone else when no one can be me?Remember this phrase from a renonwed company“Those misfits,Those rebels,Those trouble-makers,They have no concern for status duo,They do not bow to hot seats,They push the human race forward,You can glorify or vilify them,But one thing you cannot do is IGNORE them,Because one who thinks can change the world Is indeed the one who DOES IT”Think different and BE YOURSELFBe yourself; everyone else is already taken. - Oscar WildeIt's quite possibly the most commonly used phrase in the history of advice: Be yourself. But it's such a vague adage. What do they really mean when they tell you to be yourself? And is it really as easy as it sounds?Being yourself simply applies being the way you want to live and not how others think you should live...............It may be......Havin pani-puri alone or going to a movie alone cause no one wants to join you but you want to do it.............TRY IT...ITS FUN...........It ll give you time to ponder how imp you are for ur own self..............At the end simply conclude by saying one thin............DO ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO IN LIFE AND DONT DO THINGS BECAUSE OTHERS WANT YOU TO DO IT....LIVE FOR UR OWN SELF BUT ONCE AND SEE THE DIFF......................WARNING: this article does not apply to morally corrupt, indecent and unacceptable behaviour and to unlawful activities...hhehehehehehehhhehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh